For Guys

If you think that she is pregnant, here are some tips that may help:

DO….

Listen: the situation involves more than just you.

Stay calm: she needs your support now more than ever

Talk about it: not only with each other, but prepare to talk to your parents and/or others close to the situation.  Hiding the news from those close to you only increases the stress.

Gather all the facts: get all the information and seek wise counsel so you can make the best decision for both of you.

Express yourself honestly: it is normal to have feelings of fear, frustration or even anger.  But make sure she knows that she is not alone.

DON’T….

Bail: the more you deny or put off talking about it, the harder it becomes to think and act clearly.

Pressure her: applying pressure may only push her away.  You will do well to work together as a team.

Forget: you have a very active role in this situation.  Listen to input and don’t be afraid to share your thoughts.